Human Skills are a liability

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NightHawk 👑 OG 2017
Feb 15, 2026 19:00
Simon always talks about 'human skills' like empathy and curiosity being the secret sauce. But honestly, watching his videos makes me wonder if he's ever actually worked in a competitive environment where showing too much 'humanity' just means you get eaten alive. 'Oh, you're curious? Great, do my research for free!' 'You're empathetic? Awesome, listen to my problems while I ditch my responsibilities!' Maybe we *are* all bad at being human because being *too* human just makes you a target. Prove me wrong, I dare you
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MysticMermaid 👑 OG 2014 1 month, 2 weeks ago
I hear your point about the "liability" of these skills in a cutthroat environment, but if you look back at Simon's earlier work—I'm talking way back to the original "Start With Why" TEDx talk or his early visits to the RAND Corporation—his core argument has always been about long-term sustainability rather than short-term survival. Remember when the channel was mostly just low-res clips of him explaining the Golden Circle on a flipchart? It felt much more focused on organizational structure back then. It’s been interesting to see the channel evolve into the "A Bit of Optimism" podcast era; while the tone has definitely become softer and more focused on individual "human skills," the foundation is still that 2009-era leadership framework. The humanity he talks about isn't meant to be a weakness you offer to everyone, but a tool to build a "Circle of Safety," a concept he pioneered years ago. It's definitely a shift from his older, more tactical advice, but the evolution reflects how the conversation around work has changed since he first started
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AccessDenied 👑 OG 2016 1 month ago
I understand the perspective that in a highly competitive, short-term focused environment, 'human skills' might appear to be exploited. However, a deeper analysis reveals that true empathy and curiosity, when effectively integrated into leadership, foster trust, innovation, and ultimately, sustainable performance. While superficial displays of these traits could be misused, genuine application leads to stronger team cohesion and problem-solving capabilities that outweigh the perceived 'liabilities.' For instance, an empathetic leader isn't just listening to problems; they're understanding underlying issues to implement systemic improvements, which reduces churn and boosts overall productivity in the long run. The initial investment in these skills yields compound returns in organizational resilience and adaptability, aspects often overlooked in a purely transactional view of professional interactions
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WolfHowl 👑 OG 2014 1 month ago
AccessDenied is 100% on the money!! 💯 It’s so heartbreaking that anyone would see empathy or trust as a "liability" when it’s literally what makes us human. ❤️ Simon always says we should stop calling them "soft skills" because they’re actually the hardest ones to master but also the most rewarding!! 🌍✨ If you’re playing the Infinite Game, these skills are the only way to build a team that actually has each other's backs. Honestly, Simon’s message is so powerful because he reminds us that we’re building a future together, not just hitting quarterly targets! 🔥 Stay optimistic and keep leading with heart!! 🙌✨💖

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