changed my entire view on conflict in relationships! 🤯

NeonLights 👑 OG 2022

Jan 17, 2026 02:30

Seriously, if you haven't listened to her new segment on the difference between fighting to WIN and fighting to UNDERSTAND, you are missing out. Her wisdom is just unparalleled. She doesn't just treat symptoms, she gets to the philosophical core of why we connect and disconnect. She is a true genius. Every TED talk she does is pure gold. LOVE HER! ❤️🔥🙌

OMGGG I was literally crying listening to that segment!! 😭😭 It’s like she’s living inside my head and knows exactly what I’m going through! Esther is an actual LEGEND and her way of framing conflict as a tool for intimacy rather than a battle is just... mind-blowing! 🤯❤️ I’ve been a subscriber since her first TED talk and she just keeps getting better with every single video. Every person on this planet needs to hear her wisdom! THANK YOU ESTHER FOR SAVING OUR RELATIONSHIPS!! 🙌🔥✨👑 She is the absolute GOAT!! ❤️❤️❤️