I've been seeing a lot of discussion lately about people setting up "traps" or "loyalty tests" to see if their partner will cheat or be rude to a stranger. Some people swear by it to find red flags early, but others think if you don't have trust to begin with, the relationship is already doomed. Has anyone here actually tried a "loyalty test" or been on the receiving end of one? Does it ever actually strengthen the bond, or is it just a fast track to a breakup?