I’ve noticed a trend in modern social interactions where being loud and "extra" is treated as a substitute for actual conversation. Do you think that’s actually effective in dating, or is it just a performance for the camera that doesn't translate to real life? Also, what’s the consensus on messy rooms? I see so many people showing off disaster-zone apartments on video calls without any embarrassment. Is that an immediate dealbreaker for you, or do you prioritize the "vibe" over basic organization? Curious to hear where everyone sets the bar these days